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posted by rugby on September 6, 2008

missing condoms

Recently I noticed that my boyfriend's condoms are going missing at a rate of about 4 a week. We have been together for a while and don't use them anymore. Should I confront him about it or let it slide?

posted by Serinus on March 1, 2009

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missing

I'd say not let it slide. But "confront" sort of implies there will be an altercation. How about just asking him? It concerns you, and if the relationship is going to progress, it needs to be strong enough to discuss concerns.

But, don't ask anything at all if you are not prepared to hear whatever response might come. Give him a chance, then listen to your gut. Sounds like you care about him, so be honest with him. You can share your own fears without any judgment implied. I think it's best to clear the air. Even if you have to deal with some pain and confusion for awhile. After all, it's already bothering you. We generally can't put things like this to rest without talking. Swallowing these kinds of feelings without checking them out will ultimately doom intimacy anyway.

posted by yuichiotsuka on May 19, 2010

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confront

I agree with Serinus. It's a matter of concern. Since you're in a relationship, you should be open to your partner. When in doubt, always open the lines for communication. 'Cause if you don't, your trust MIGHT slowly fade away, without you even noticing it.

And relax. Confront him in a loving way. Don't start the conversation with a loud or dominating voice.

posted by boiboi30 on July 16, 2010

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on ther other hand

he may like jerking off with them on, but if he is having sex at least he is being protected.

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