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I am a decent grounded levelheaded sober person with some intelligence, some humility, with a sensible approach to his gay orientation and whose objective is to meet nice people who can reach across barriers and still make sense and who knows what he is about and what he wants in his acquaintances, friendship or lover. They can be anyone and anything but, they should be sincere, decent, and real.
“If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.”
Dev is a person who has a value system, strong notions about etiquette, friendship, and things like that. If you do not care for these things at all, maybe you should stop reading now; Fun is ok, enjoyment we all seek yes, but gay/bi is still people, normal people, and these things work for ALL of us.
I think the one thing that makes me want to meet men even if they are at a huge distance from my place is my hope for a true connection. I believe a camaraderie born of a shared value system and a patient but urgent need for companionship can bring men close in a way that affirms their beliefs, sense of self, and hope for adequate fulfillment. That is important for a life of dignity, some meaning, even some fun and adventure that is not marred by insecurity…. With men, you know the worst quickly, and if it is not too unpalatable, you know you have a future together. I, for one, need a man with integrity and an affectionate and steadfast bent of mind. That in itself would make him worth a great deal to me.
If emotional fulfillment means very little to you, u are wasting your time reading this, and mine if you reply
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